ad infinitum

How do you balance work and home life?

In the Year of our Lord 2025
One Work to Make the Money
Only enough to Stay Alive
More Work to Make some Money
Not enough to Live or Thrive

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Balance? What Balance?

To a lot of people, Home Life is Work after Work:

You come home after a long day at The Job,
And you need to cook because hungry
And you need to clean because good Lord: laundry.

For cooking and cleaning to actually happen, you need to shop.
Have you gone shopping?
And did you get everything you needed?

One of you or both of you forgot the canned tomatoes and the detergent. Again.

And then there’s the laundry.
Always the laundry.
And then there’s the dishes.
Always the dishes.

Someone needs to strip the bed.
Someone needs to clean the bathroom.
Someone needs to wipe the floors.
Someone needs to go and vacuum.

One of you or both you forgot to put the bins out. Again.

If you have children that’s a whole other body of work right there:
From bathing and bedtime to extracurriculars and homework, there is Work to Be Done.

The Children need Raising.
The Children need Tending
The Children need Minding.
The Children need Care.

All while making sure their bodies stay healthy
And their brains don’t get scrambled
And their souls don’t get eaten by Whoever Online.

Also quality time.
Also weekend activities.
Also family visits.
Also birthdays, holidays, vacations.

One of you or both of you forgot to schedule that appointment. Again.

The Children need Raising.
The Children need Tending
The Children need Minding.
The Children need Care.

Oh, and they need clothes. And shoes.
And all of those clothes and shoes need to be season appropriate.
By the way, they keep on growing.
They need new clothes. Again.
They need new shoes. Again.
And there’s this thing called fashion.

Have you gone shopping?
And did you get everything you needed?

One of you or both of you got the wrong t-shirt. Again.

Someone needs to strip the bed.
Someone needs to clean the bathroom.
Someone needs to wipe the floors.
Someone needs to go and vacuum.

And then there’s the laundry.
Always the laundry.
And then there’s the dishes.
Always the dishes.

Also quality time.
Also weekend activities.
Also family visits.
Also DIY, Repairs, The Garden.

One of you or both of you just got sick. Again.

Sleep? Isn’t happening
Peace? Isn’t happening
Quiet? Isn’t happening.
Get well. Now.

Someone needs to strip the bed.
Someone needs to clean the bathroom.
Someone needs to wipe the floors.
Someone needs to go and vacuum.

And then there’s the laundry.
Always the laundry.
And then there’s the dishes.
Always the dishes.

Always the laundry.
Always the dishes.

Always the laundry.
Always the dishes.

©2025 threegoodwords

hot water

late night, past midnight
and there is yet work to be done

so I top up the bottle
with more hot water
like some comfy hen
wrapping herself up in warm feathers
cluck cluck cluck

except I stopped pretending long ago:

sudden, unpredictable cold
shivering down the spine like
a branch of flashing leaves
in an invisible breeze:
I don’t brave that anymore
like some brazen teen
infatuated with designs of cool
of “what if anyone did see?”

but cuddle up to the hot water
bottled
snug close like a young cat
curled in the crook of my lap
fast asleep, purring
while my eyes droop over keys
fingers slipping, dipping into darkness
those invisible fountain pens
flashing glossy black
on bright white screens.

 

©2017 threegoodwords

gotta run

desk 3

funny funny
ha ha ha
one part madness
two parts mush

three parts sadness
seven parts –
‘Oh damn, gotta run!’

sipping lattes
in scrubwood rooms
lamps lit lightly
glowing so cool

meeting quickly, kissing, mwa!
eating, parting
meetings, starting
a brand new countdown, gah!

memos, memos, one more mail
then a quick breather
lunch? totally! 2 pm? yeah!

sitting together
exchanging words
‘That’s so funny’
‘You’re so cute’
‘I love this place’
‘Omigod – shoot!’

‘Oh no’
‘Sorry. Tomorrow, promise!’
two hugs one kiss
‘Let’s catch up’

‘God I’m so late’
‘See ya’
‘Luvya’

five second sadness
‘Gotta run!’

 

© 2015 threegoodwords

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