What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?
Go ahead and Neville Chamberlain your life. Next, you’ll need Allies to get everyone out of the mess you “Peace at all Cost” yourself into. And all at a very high price.
#monday
Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle?
RDD: Regular Digital Detox
At least one (1) full day a week without any type of social media. Reduced app use during the week and No AI.
Also:
Eating good food. Reading interesting fiction. Taking time to rest. Singing in the shower. Talking to friends over snacks and wine. Enjoying the small things. Prioritising mental health. Taking your time. Listening to what the body needs and following through. Living well, as best as you can.
#friday #mentalhealth
yap. show up. care.
What quality do you value most in a friend?
Tell me everything. I want to know. You know I want to know. I know you want me to know.
Spill! Ooooh! NO WAY! *gasp* Well I never. The Audacity. Continue.
There’s this thing, wanna join?
*checks calendar* I have time! Yay! When? Where? Oh, wait there’s a discount!
Memes at 2 a.m.
Saw this, thought of you.
#friday
watch & learn
Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.
Sometimes, a positive comes from observing a negative.
A warning ignored, a talent wasted.
A life lived in quiet desperation due to choices made rather than inclination.
And then of course: pattern recognition.
That moment of understanding: Not That. Definitely Not That.
Little lessons learned on the way.
#thoughtoftheday
believe them the first time
Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.
Once again, too many to count.
However, there are some lessons learnt on the way:
“Haters gonna hate.” – AAVE
There will be people close to you who will hate you for daring to try. Some will do what they can to stop you from trying. And some will maliciously demoralise. Do not underestimate that negativity, it can kill off more than you realise.
“If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” – Maya Angelou
It will save you a lot of heartbreak. Yes, you have haters, and yes, they can’t stand you, no matter how much they smile. Does it hurt? Of course it does. Believe it, though. They are showing you who they really are. Leave them in their darkness and move on. Pearls before swine etc.
“A real friend will make time. A true friend will take the time to understand.” – threegoodwords
Don’t confuse availability and convenience with friendship. Good friends are a treasure. Know you are worth the time, effort, and commitment, and you will be surprised who’ll show up and be an actual friend.
“unbothered. moisturized. happy. in my lane. focused. flourishing.” – Caeli K.
Take care of yourself and treat yourself well. You have this life. Live it.
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